Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Truly, Allah loves that woman who loves her husband, is cheerful and guards herself from other men.” [Kanz-ul-Ammaal]
The kind of love that Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) wants to see of a wife for her husband is intense love; the type of love that ignores small hurts and offences. When you really care about someone, you don’t make mountains out of mole hills, you overlook faults and remain cheerful.
The other important characteristic of women whom Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) loves is that they do not take interest in men other than their husbands. Nowadays, being able to talk, laugh and joke unreservedly with any man is considered to be a sign of confidence and good temperament and disposition. Know that easy familiarity with non-Mahram men is not liked by Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) or his Prophet (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) and is not a part of Islam.